Heartfelt Blessings for March 27th: Getting Rid of Should




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Getting Rid of Should

"I believe that should is one of the most damaging words in our language. Every time we use it, we are, in effect, sayng that we are wrong, or we were wrong, or we're going to be wrong. I would like to take the word should out of our vocababulary forever and replace it with the word could. This word gives us a choice, and we're never wrong."



—Louise Hay



Ms. Hay went on to suggest that each of us think of five things we "should" do and write them down, then ask ourselves why we haven't done them. We may find the reason something wasn't done is valid, but even if that is not the case, by reframing it as a could instead of a should, we cast it in a more positive light. Instead of a chore that should be done, it becomes a possibility that CAN Be accomplished.

May you only be aware of what you could and CAN do and oblivious to what should be done.

And may you always be aware that you are loved beyond measure and a cherished blessing to me.

Until tomorrow,

May your day be filled
with all things good,





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  • 3/29/2008 9:18 PM Mary Jeanne Nusca wrote:
    Dear Kate,
    I love the inspirational messages you send to me each day. I would love to send your daily messages to a friend who would gain such strength from the daily message. How would I go about putting her email on your subscription list so she receives your daily message?
    Thanks for all you do. Also which site would I log onto to buy your videos? I want to give them to a friend as a birthday present. Thanks!
    Mary Jeanne
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    1. 3/30/2008 10:02 AM Kate wrote:
      Thank you so much Mary Jeanne. The best way to subscribe your friend is to either forward your daily blessing or send her a link to the daily blessing blog -- www.bettertobless.net -- and suggest she subscribe. Because all subscriptions must be verified by the subscriber before they are entered, this way she will be watching for the confirmation email and will be sure and get on the list. If you would like to order the Cherished Blessings DVD which includes all three of the movies, you may do so by visiting the Better to Bless Gift Shop. You'll find it here: http://www.bettertobless.com/giftshop.html.

      And thank you again so much for your desire to "spread the word" and your support.

      Love, light and blessings,

      Kate

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  • 4/5/2008 12:00 PM Donna Hannah wrote:
    Kate I can't tell you what a blessing you have been in my life. I have been with you since the blessing experiment began in 2006 and I await your message each day. I want to live my life in the light each and every day.I know that I am blessed in so many ways. I send my blessings to others whenever I can and I have passed your site to many friends whom now are experiencing the same wonderful messages from you.

    The messages have made a difference in how I've choosen to live my day on many days over the past few years. Recently I became very ill while on a long awaited vacation. I was hospitalized there for 10 days and then was sent home by a medivac plane and into hospital in my own country. Through the process in the other country it was dicovered that my cancer has metastisized somewhere else in my body. Whew...a big shock and not what I had scripted for my life. I am looking at the fact that I got so sick in the US as a blessing that provided the means to discover the fact that the cancer had spread. Now I need the strength each day to stay in the light for the walk ahead, your daily messages do make a difference Kate...thank you for fighting so hard to keep your site working, I am sure at times it has been a hard struggle. You do make a difference, I thank God for you Kate...you are a cherished blessing to ME and the world of people you touch!
    Love, light and all good things to YOU....from Donna
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    1. 4/6/2008 10:21 AM Kate wrote:
      Dear Donna,

      Thank you so much for writing. Your attitude, courage and overall outlook are astounding and I am so grateful to you.  I am sure I am joined by many who are sending you blessings of healing and love, surrounding you in the shimmering light of wholeness.  In my mind's eye, I see every cancer cell being gently dissolved into nothingness as each healthy cell in your body is rejuvenated, re-energized and revitalized. I'm envisioning you sitting at your computer and smiling brightly as you compose another comment for this blog. In this comment, you are telling me that you have just come from your doctor and have been found to be totally free of cancer. Your doctor has just told you that you are 100 percent healthy and whole!

      I am holding to that image and I am certain others will join with me. Before we know it that new comment will arrive and we will all be jumping for joy. But why wait! Let's start jumping for joy now, shall we? I am jumping for joy because you are you, Donna. I am jumping for joy because this new cancer was caught in time. I am jumping for joy because the cancer is vacating the premises even as I write these words. I am jumping for joy because you are cancer free. Whoo-Hoo!

      Thanks again for posting, Donna.

      You are so loved.

      Love, light and blessings,

      Kate

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  • 4/6/2008 5:21 AM U. wrote:
    Dear Kate,
    your daily blessings are so beautiful. Thank you!!!
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    1. 4/6/2008 10:09 AM Kate wrote:
      You're so welcome and thank you! for the greatly appreciated compliment.

      Have a wonderful day.

      Love, light and blessings,

      Kate

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